Ok, yes, first of all, what to wear? Of course, you are an attractive woman, so make-up, heels, and lipstick to start... what about your outfit?
Wear a Sports Team Jersey - DO or DON'T?
Do wear the jersey for the local team ONLY. If you wear the jersey for the opposing out of town team, they just might 86 you and wearing it is too confrontational and counterproductive for flirting. Seriously, that is just not the confrontational energy you want for fostering romantic chemistry.
You do not have to wear a sports jersey to attend a game at a Sport Bar. Now, if wearing one is absolutely super genuinely you, DO go ahead and wear your local team. In general, it is almost a bit competitive with the guys, and that competitive energy is not conducive for romantic chemistry and body language flirting.
Women can wear the team's cute Ladies T-shirts which often have a touch of lycra and feature a touch of bling accentuating the team logo. Do dress feminine, cute, and casual. Blue jeans are great on this occasion, often paired with high heels to complete the look where you convey your message of being a woman. Not a Sports Fan image. Different energy.
Wear to Sit and How to Behave
DO bring a couple of friends with you, preferably all women.
Your girlfriends are your wing men (girls) and can set you up, chatski with a cute guy, and then turn and introduce you, positioning you well. Not all of you need to be huge sports enthusiasts. So long as you genuinely enjoy a game periodically, go. You can always ask those safe feminine conversation starters of the men to explain it to you! "I've never really understood the call of Icing in hockey.... Could you please explain it to me?" uttered in your sweetest femmy voice.
DON'T Bring Your Whole Sorority House or Junior League Committee Team with You
While studies demonstrate that engaged women had a group of girlfriends they regularly go out to dinner with and make social efforts with, studies also show that the most effective groups are small - 3-4 women. Men feel like they would have to break into a herd to reach you when your group is more than 4 women. Bring your girlfriends, just keep it to a small group cheapcoachfactoryoutletonline.weebly.com/#1, ok?
DO Sit at a Cocktail Bar Table Right In the Middle of the Bar Area
Sitting at a table in the middle area of the bar puts you in the middle of the action cheapcoachfactoryoutletonline.weebly.com/#3, and you are surrounded by all sides with other fans with whom you can lightly flirt and interact. Often there will be at least one table of a group of men to your left or to your right. A group of 4 men as well. In this group not all the men are necessarily single. Some might be married.
When you are in a super public place like this watching a sports game, it is perfectly acceptable simply to flirt with all of them lightly and you mean nothing more by it. So here it is ok to flirt with the married guy just the same at the single men. This is a great time to practice your Body Language Flirting skills with no need to worry or fret. You don't need to do anything to steer it to his asking you for your number or a date. You do want to practice your light flirting skills while you are getting polished, poised, and skilled without it being Mr. Hotty the first time you try them out.
You're all just there to have fun and watch the game. At the end of the evening head home. No harm no foul. Or as we say in Stanley Cup hockey, "No blood, play on!"
DO Cheer For Your Local Team
No need to be timid females where you're to demure to utter a word while there. This is a Sport Bar with a sporting event playing. Whoop it up when the save if in your team's favor or when the score a touchdown or a goal! Go ahead! You're here to have fun.
DON'T Be the Loudest Table at the Bar
Being super loud with the cheers is a very yang aggressive male mode. Yes, women can be enthusiastic sports fans and can cheer. Let the guys rule the mood, tone, and decibel level. Let them be men while you have fun admiring and interacting with it. Just don't be the loudest table there.
DON'T Hide at a Small Side Table in the Dark
You might feel really shy the first time you go to a sports bar. However, don't just sit at a small table in the far dark corner and hide or you completely wasted your whole point in going to the sports bar. If you are feeling shy, bring at least one girlfriend with you and interact with her and sit closer to the middle when you can get those tables.
DO Be Sure to Break Periodically from the Pack of Your Girlfriends and Cross to the Bar Alone
When you break from The Pack of your girlfriends, you provide both the opportunity for an interested man to approach you.
Additionally, by doing so, while you are crossing the room, you are displaying yourself to the men there cheapcoachfactoryoutletonline.weebly.com/#4, that you are an attractive and romantically available woman. This is the Mating Equivalent of Dangling the Wiggling Sparkling Bait in front of a school of hungry fish.
So don't just rely on your cocktail waiter or waitress to serve your table all evening. Do create reasons for you to go up to the bar alone throughout the evening. For instance, order an appetizer from your wait person and then your drinks at the bar.
Sunday and Monday nights? Where the Boys are? Well, lots of them are at the Sports Bar this Fall and Winter and Spring. Go ahead and place yourself there strategically, too, Getteth Thee to a Sport Bar, follow these DOs and DON'Ts, and you never know what might develop!
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